Life stuff, Psychology

It was better than the worse

Sometimes convincing your wife/husband might be simply trying to make them feel that it's better than the worse. If you ever failed to convince you partner to let you do something and always end up with derogatory remarks, than it might be your chance to use Contrast Principle on them. According to Social Scientist, it… Continue reading It was better than the worse

Feelings, Life stuff

A conversation

"Darling, I want you to promise me something." she said with  prudence. She doesn't look, Okay! I have never seen Max with  that kind of look.  She grabbed my hand and placed over her tummy and  muttered "She is our daughter who is stubborn to come out.  And I know for sure that she would… Continue reading A conversation

Feelings, human nature, inspiration, Life stuff, Psychology

Make Your Accomplishments Seem Effortless

As a society, we value natural effortless accomplishments over accomplishment through effort. Many people aspire for effortless perfection. They believe they should display perfect beauty, perfect womanhood, and perfect scholarship all without trying. “Becoming is better than being”, but people’s mindset does not allow the luxury of becoming. They have to be already, for them… Continue reading Make Your Accomplishments Seem Effortless

Being Human, Feelings, Life stuff, Psychology, Stories

The Ugly Truth

If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive. I learned it is foolish to scold. Even in the process to prove our point, we only end up putting the other person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. By criticizing we don't make lasting changes and often incur… Continue reading The Ugly Truth

Being Human, Feelings, human nature, inspiration, Life stuff, Psychology

The Five Monkeys and the Clear Alternative

It goes like this. Five monkeys are thrown in a cage by a sadistic monkey-hater. Enough food and water is available at the bottom of the cage, saving them from starvation while forcing them to lead a boring life of staring through the glass every day. The food at the bottom is bad, but sufficient.… Continue reading The Five Monkeys and the Clear Alternative

Being Human, Feelings, How to tackle issues, human nature, inspiration, Life stuff, lust, Psychology

Presence of an Infector

Emotional states are as infectious as a disaster. I believe we are whom we associate in the world with different humanities, beliefs, and emotions. Our thoughts are strongly impacted by our peers, with whom we learn to help and change lives, to make it a more equal world. But what if that association can turn… Continue reading Presence of an Infector